Beginner’s Guide to Dildos: Find Your Perfect Match

Thinking about buying your first dildo or looking to be more informed on your next purchase? You’re in the right place. Whether you're solo-curious, spicing things up with a partner, or just exploring your pleasure, dildos are one of the most versatile and satisfying toys out there. This guide breaks it all down in three simple steps: understanding what a dildo really is, the types you can choose from, and how to take care of it like a pro.

Dildo Breakdown

What Makes a Great Dildo?

At its core, a dildo is a toy designed for penetration—vaginal, anal, or both. But they’re more than just phallic shapes. A great dildo is all about comfort, fit, and feel.

Here are a few things beginners should keep in mind when shopping:

Size matters – Start with something smaller or average-sized (around 5–7 inches) and build up from there as you get more comfortable.
Material – Soft, body-safe silicone is a favorite for beginners. It's non-porous, easy to clean, and feels great against the skin.
Shape – Some dildos are curved for G-spot or P-spot (prostate) stimulation. Others are straight and smooth. You might even prefer textured ones for extra sensation.
Base style – Suction cups are great for hands-free fun. If you're planning anal play, a flared base is a must for safety.

The bottom line? Pick something that feels exciting and approachable. Your pleasure, your pace.

Types of Dildos

Explore Your Options

Dildos come in all shapes, sizes, and styles. Here’s a quick overview of the most popular types:

Realistic Dildos: Designed to look and feel like the real thing. Veins, textures, even balls—these are great if you want a lifelike experience.

Vibrating Dildos: Add some buzz to your play. These combine penetration with internal vibrations and often feature multiple settings for different moods.

Thrusting Dildos: These toys actually move in and out on their own, mimicking real thrusting. Some also vibrate for a double-whammy of pleasure.

Double-Ended Dildos: Perfect for couples or adventurous solo players. These can be used for mutual play or double penetration—depending on the design.

Fantasy Dildos: Think tentacles, monsters, and dragons. These toys are wildly imaginative and perfect for roleplay or pushing the limits of sensation.

Glass Dildos & Metal Dildos: Sleek, firm, and temperature-responsive. These are ideal for users who want precision, pressure, or a more artistic look.

Not sure where to start? A soft silicone dildo with a suction cup base is usually a great first choice.

Dildo Care

Keep it Clean, Keep it Safe

Caring for your dildo isn’t complicated—but it is essential. Here’s how to do it right:

✔ Clean before and after each use
Use warm water and a mild, unscented soap, or grab a toy cleaner. If your dildo is waterproof and made from silicone or glass, you can even boil it for a deep clean.

✔ Know your materials
Silicone toys should not be used with silicone-based lube—stick to water-based. Glass, metal, and ABS plastic are usually safe with any lube.

✔ Store smart
Keep your dildo in a lint-free toy bag or separate case. If you own multiple silicone toys, avoid letting them touch each other to prevent material breakdown.

✔ Check for damage
If your dildo is starting to crack, peel, or change color, it’s time to toss it. Your body deserves only the safest, cleanest toys.

Ready to Find Your First Dildo?

Explore our full selection at Shop Erotic and filter by size, material, and features to find the perfect fit. Whether you’re going for simple and smooth or bold and fantasy-inspired, we’ve got something to turn your curiosity into pure satisfaction.